Gratitude as an Antidote to Negative Emotions
July, 2025
I find that in times of emotional turmoil, when there’s confusion, despair, and overwhelm, gratitude offers a surprisingly immediate and powerful shift in perspective. It’s not just a concept. Gratitude is an energy, a real presence that rises from the heart when we recognize the mysterious, ungraspable nature of life.
Even in the darkest moments, when negative thoughts and feelings cloud everything, gratitude can break through. Of course, it often feels impossible to access. When we’re in pain or anger, when we feel like pulling back or isolating, gratitude may seem far away, irrelevant, or even offensive. But if we can find a crack of willingness, just a small opening, it can change everything.
The practice is simple: find one small thing to be grateful for.
The warmth of your morning coffee.
A patch of blue sky.
A tree or flower.
A stranger’s kindness.
A child’s laugh.
The fact that you are still here.
These moments might seem insignificant, but when you bring your full awareness to them, when you let yourself feel the gratitude, they open something in the heart. That tiny flicker of thankfulness can shift your entire state of being. What felt heavy and dark becomes infused with mystery, presence, and the quiet joy of simply being alive.
It’s not about pretending everything is okay.
It’s about touching something true beneath the struggle.
And often, that truth is: we’re here, and that is already a miracle.

Charlotte Jigen Juul
I am a Zen priest with a MA in Contemplative Psychotherapy and Buddhist Psychology from Naropa University, Boulder, Colorado, USA and a BA in Psychosynthesis from “The Psychosynthesis and Education Trust” in London. Besides that, I am a certified SE-Practitioner (SEP), in Trauma Psychology, Somatic Experience (SE-practitioner, Peter Levine), I am a certified BigMind Facilitator by Zen Master Genpo Roshi and became an “Ordained Zen priest” in 2018.
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